Thursday, 29 April 2010
Why I'm Giving Up Calorie Counting
Monday, 19 April 2010
Live Well Pledge
Friday, 16 April 2010
Rights and Wrongs
Throughout my life I’ve been made aware of the things I don’t have. This is usually done by other people, who thinking they are being helpful, or just being mean, point out that I don’t have the right this, or the right that.
I have never had the right toys.
I have never had the right clothes.
I have never had the right things in my lunchbox.
I have never had the right shoes.
I have never had the right friends.
I have never had the right taste in music.
I have never had the right accessories.
I have never had the right ideas.
I have never had the right talents.
I have never had the right hobbies.
I have never had the right books.
I have never had the right nails.
I have never had the right hair.
I have never had the right complexion.
I have never had the right beauty regime.
And I have never cared about any of this, because I am individual, with my own choices and my own life to live. I realise that all of the above things are bullshit, and I have had and still do have the right EVERYTHING as far as I am concerned. Even if it’s not up to the ridiculous standard of others.
So why the hell do I care so much that I don’t have the right BMI?
Or the right numbers on the weighing scale.
Or the right body shape.
Wednesday, 14 April 2010
Fat Acceptance, Health At Every Size and more
Friday, 9 April 2010
Fat Romance, Take Two
I’ve spent more than my fair share of time moping around all single-like, convinced that my horrid ugliness was repulsing everyone and ruining my life. It’s an easy trap to fall into. But the last time I pulled myself out of it, it was due to the realization that I cannot meet guys if I do not… meet guys. Y’know. Leave the house. And go to places where people are. And meet those people.
It’s crazy, I know! But your chances of hookin’ up with someone are vastly improved if you put yourself out there. I forced my mopey ass out my apartment door and joined a gaming club, accepted every let’s-go-out-after-work invite from my female co-workers, and otherwise made an effort to locate people that I got along with. It was certainly no guarantee that I was going to meet a guy, but it was more entertaining than sitting at home vaccuming the cat hair from my couch. And hey, I made some friends! And I met some guys! And dated some guys! And dumped some guys. And moved in with this one guy that’s right awesome.
This goes for everyone, fat or skinny or short or tall or whatever. It’s not always easy to get into that place where you’re able to make connections with others, but it’s absolutely worth doing. The world is often not as hateful and harsh as one might think. Or maybe I’m just too cheerfully deluded to notice, ever since I managed to drown out my self-loathing inner soundtrack. Things feel so… bright. Hopeful. I keep positive people close to me, and I avoid the negative ones. Contentment with myself has transformed into something confidence-esque. And confidence is waaaaay attractive. :D
Now I know exactly how that feels; I've spent a heck of a lot of time moping around because I'm fat and ugly and no one will ever fancy me because how could anyone fancy someone who looks like this? The remarkable thing about that comment is that it applies to non fatties almost as often as it does fatties. I know and have known a large number of people, none of whom could ever be described as fat, with exactly that problem.
And the simple truth is this: it's not fatness that is ugly, nor is it the case that skinny is sexy. None of that really matters. When it comes to romance, and indeed friendships, the thing that matters far more than how you look is how you see yourself. Nobody is ever going to fancy a mopy shut in, except maybe another mopey shut in, but if they're both sat in their rooms moping all the time how are they ever going to meet. The most important thing in the world when it comes to developing meaningful relationships, both platonic and romantic, is to be an interesting, confident person than people want to talk to, to spend time with. Everything else is secondary.
Thinking back on my personal romantic experience it was certainly the case. I found the love of my life after deciding to give up on looking for romance and concentrating on finding new hobbies and becoming an interesting, outgoing and hopefully confident person.
Those of you who are reading this looking for romance, try something for me. Try putting it to the back of your mind, and concentrate on finding a new hobby, and on meeting new people. Don't be afraid to try new things, even if a few of them scare you. Even if you don't find the love of your life, you might find your're too busy having fun to worry about it.
Thursday, 8 April 2010
Further Detoxing and Microwave Adventures
I spent yesterday detoxing from my indulging weekend and reinstating my lifestyle plan. The detox side of it meant drinking somewhere in the region of 8 pints of iced green tea. Not 100% sure how much I drank as I made the tea up in a huge plastic bowl. But I put about 8 teabags in it.
Wednesday, 7 April 2010
Detoxing and revising my plan
- I need to maintain control of my carbohydrate intake, whatever the meal. Part of the problem has always been the large portions of pasta and rice that get served up at home. I need to make sure I never eat more than I need.
- I'm going to try to eat lots more fruit and vegetables, because they're always readily available in my parent's house. Also they're good for me, and I've been meaning to up my fruit and veg intake.
- I'm going to ask my parent's to get in some all bran muesli type stuff. Having some for breakfast will ensure a good fibre intake, hopefully fill me up for a lot of the day, and will be packed full of vitamins and minerals.
- I'm going to take my Slimfast shakes with me, and maybe see if I can get some more. They make for good, quick lunches.
- I'm going to offer to walk the dog at least three times a week. That means that I'm still getting exercises and not sitting round on my bum all day revising.
Thursday, 1 April 2010
My Latest Obsession: Tea
Today I thought I’d talk about my latest passion obsession; tea. While I’ve been quite a fan of the beverage for some time, my interests has exploded recently. It’s one of the things that makes me incredibly happy at the moment, and it’s pretty good for me as well, so I thought I would talk about it for a while.
My family are quite big tea drinkers; they get through a good six or seven (big) pots a day. And that’s a conservative estimate. Sometimes I thin they might almost single handedly keep their chosen tea suppliers in business if they had to. I can’t quite remember when I first made the transition from ‘kiddy’ drinks like fruit squash up to the more mature and adult cup of tea, but it was a good few years ago now. In any case, I quickly matched my family’s thirst for tea.
Whenever I’m at home I’m the first to ask if it’s cup of tea time, the first to finish the cup and ask for another one. But until about 6 months ago most of my tea drinking experience was limited to bog standard supermarket blends with lots of milk. I’d experimented with lemon tea, green tea, herbal teas and slimming teas, but I always came back to the blended English tea.
I blame my Student’s
A couple of months later I was searching for free tea samples on the internet, because, well, I’m a poor student and can’t afford to buy a whole box to try a new kind if tea. I spoke to a few friends who also got some samples for me. Next thing I knew I was buying tea from Twinings by the crate load.
I now own many different varieties of tea; Lapsang Souchong, Lady Gray,
The great thing about drinking so much tea is that it’s weaned me off sugary coffee, carbonated drinks and fruit juices. Tea is essentially calorie free, which means that my waistline is benefitting from my obsession. I very rarely drank carbonated drinks, but I would start every day with a large glass of fresh fruit juice and spend most of the rest of the day drinking coffee with two sugars in. Now I start the day with a large mug of Lady Gray, and to be perfectly honest, I feel better for it.
There’s a lot of contention and controversy over the health benefits of tea. I tend to take the claims that it can protect you against cancer with a large pinch of salt, and it would be nice if green tea could burn fat for you. I think if that truly was the case then all my family would be stick thin. What is generally accepted is that tea is packed full of antioxidants in varying levels depending on whether you’re drinking black, green or white tea. The antioxidants mop up free radicals in your body, and help your natural enzymes do their job properly. These free radicals have been blamed for all sorts of diseases so drinking tea could be very good for your health.
In any case, drinking tea is a great, low calorie way to get your recommended liquid level each day. And the advantage of my collection is I have so many varieties than I shouldn’t get bored. Boredom is the enemy when I comes to food and drink, because it means your start eating and drinking things that aren’t good for you, things that aren’t in your plan.
Captainraz’s guide to teas: